Just because a couple plays house by cohabitating or taking vacations with each other's families, that doesn't necessarily equate to marriage, Seligson said. Her book, released earlier this year, combines scientific research and interviews with more than 160 couples who are "a little bit married." CNN asked Seligson about these lengthy relationships, cohabitation and advice for couples who are in long-term relationships.
You buy furniture together but you say, "What happens when if we broke up? " There is no definite sense this will culminate in marriage.Or maybe couples that have modest rings and receptions feel that their boundless love is a celebration enough.Maybe this is all being thrown by some hidden Kardashian variable that none of us has uncovered yet. You see, I've always had this two year rule in my mind for how long I want to date someone before we get married. After twenty-four months together, you usually know whether your partner is someone you could really commit to—forever.But a lot of my friends have been getting married with fewer than this magical two years under their belts, and it's making me second-guess my rule. Does it really matter at all how long you date before you get married?